Little Black Sheep by Ashley Cleveland
Ashley spend the majority of her growing up years thinking that she was too fat. Her parents told her so. They were concerned about her appearance rather than her happiness. At a young age, Ashley turned to drugs and alcohol. She also discovered that she was a talented musician and songwriter. She made money here and there playing at various events, but most of it went towards drugs and alcohol. She went into rehab and came back out again, only to go back to drugs and alcohol.
She had a baby, but that didn’t stop her from chasing things that would dull her feelings about life. She started writing more songs. She went back to rehab. She met a wonderful man and eventually had a family, but drugs and alcohol were never far behind. These days Ashley is an award-winning country musician and songwriter with a personal relationship with God.
What I liked
I’ve never heard of Ashley Cleveland. She seems like an interesting person. It’s unfortunate that so much of her life has been dictated by substance abuse and mental abuse from her family. There are worse things than being overweight, like being a stuck-up, holier-than-thou jerk, who thinks that everyone should be so thin that they can fit between deck slats and use their body in spread-eagle position as the frame-work for a kite on windy days, with only the help of a sheet.
I like that Ashley found herself. I like that she found a religion, which does help her in life. She has a lot of talent and shouldn’t be wasting it, by dulling it with drugs and tons of alcohol.
What I didn’t like
When parents condone the mental abuse of a child and even participate in it, that’s not cool. It’s one thing to worry that your kid might need to lose some weight; it’s another to make it the soul focus of your opinion about that child. Seriously, there are worse things your kid could be than fat. They could be one of those kids that goes and shoots up their classmates at school. I feel for Ashley, I really do. Her parents weren’t a ton of help to her when she needed them most.
I’ll keep an ear out for Ashley Cleveland.
Do you know someone whose parents put an extreme emphasis on their appearance?
If you did know someone like that, did it affect them negatively?